Laws Of Attraction
I know everyone thinks we choose who we are attracted to, bullshit. Granted, the physical appearance does help a little. Why do we always see people that are not that attractive with partners that are 10’s. It boils down to your own personal techniques of building that attraction. Some have to work at it and some are just naturals.
We all want what we can’t have. Whether it’s that cool car we can’t afford, the job our friend has that makes twice as much money, or the house on the hill. It gives us something to wish/hope for with possible accomplishments. It gives us a mental reason to keep pushing ahead. Well attracting the opposite sex follows the same mentality. We want the next best thing. Now, I’m not talking about people that already have the one and are married, granted they still secretly wish. I’m talking about the single people that are out there looking trying to find their companion.
Let’s discuss this a little. How many times have you been the nice guy. You’ve called when you should, show up on time, anything chivalry you do it. You thought you did everything right, but what happened. You didn’t build attraction. Don’t get me wrong these things all work later after you build the attraction. Keep in mind when you first meet within the first 10 minutes usually you know if there is attraction or not. So how do we do this.
First, let’s go back to we all want what we can’t have. Taking that into account do you think the guy who immediately says I think you are so beautiful, I’m glad I met you, your eyes are unbelievable, you’re the hottest girl I’ve ever seen, can I buy you a drink, etc. ever comes out ahead. He’s already lost. He’s done what 95% of the other guys are doing. He’s identical, not different in anyway. She knows she can have him, IF SHE WANTS HIM. Now, I’m sure she doesn’t. The key is, you have to stand out. You have to be different than the masses. Remember this CONFIDENCE is your biggest asset. You have to act the part. You have to act like you could take it or leave. That you could walk away and not think twice. Now she wonders, what he’s not interested in me?
Here’s a couple of nuggets. You see the girl you want to talk to. Rather than walk up and spill your guts. Go up with a plan. Hopefully you are there with friends. Think of some off the wall question. “Listen my friend and I are having a debate now about who lies more, men or women”? Make most of your contact with the one your not interested in, the less attractive one. This should get the hotter one wondering why you aren’t showing interest in her. Now she wants what she can’t have. Plus you didn’t walk up and say the normal cliché stuff every other guy does. Your just having normal conversation rather than them throwing there guard up. Next, after a couple of minutes, don’t overstay your welcome say “ well my friends are waiting on me I should get back , we should hang out sometime here put your # in my phone”. Just hand the phone like it’s no big deal. Done!
Another tip. I call it warming the place. When I first get to the bar/ club/ party/ etc. I make a few laps around. You have to marketmarket or presell yourself. Don’t stop and speak to anyone more than 30 seconds. Use subtle gestures. Point at a girl, smile, shake your head, and keep walking. She will wonder what the hell was that. Whisper in another’s ear and say I gotta tell you, “your in the top 3 in here”. She’s going to wonder who the other 2 are and take my word for it, she will hound you until she finds out. Point at the next one’s feet and say, “nice toes”. She doesn’t here that too often. Walk through the entire place and use what I like to call transaction interaction.
Do small subtle off the wall things like this the whole way through. Now, later through the night when they see you again it’s almost like they know you. It will be much easier to speak with them. It’s like it’s your second time meeting them and their guard will be down. Plus you have made them think that you could take it or leave. Which means what? They want what they can’t have! This is just a few techniques. Don’t ever be cocky, or arrogant. Your main goal is cocky / funny.
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