Love Your Sizzling Self Pleasure: Show Him How It’s Done And Really Turn Him On
Do you experience the best orgasms by doing self-pleasure? And/or, do you have a partner that is a bit inept, inexperienced, or indifferent? If you can answer ‘yes’ to either one or all of these questions, assuming he’s willing to play along, perhaps it’s time your partner has a teacher. And, who could teach your partner how to pleasure you better than ‘YOU’?
Okay, first you need to ask yourself if you’d enjoy being watched, up close and personal. And, could you actually give a great performance? If so, then masturbating for your partner could enhance sexual satisfaction and desire for both of you. It’s erotic and sensual for a man to be able to watch a woman enjoying self pleasure and reaching orgasm. Most likely, he will not only get excited, but will want to join in your fun.
Allowing your partner to watch you masturbate is like giving him a crash course in where, how, how hard and how much you like to be touched. Let him watch you play with your breasts and nipples, and rub your hands and fingers around and on your clitoris. Let him hear the sounds that come from deep within your throat. Let him see the moisture building in your vagina. For a man, I’m told, watching a woman’s sexual responses is an incredibly sexy experience. vibrator
Many women are shy and apprehensive when it comes to letting someone see them engage in self pleasure. But it can be a new mutually stimulating art form. Masturbating should be more than a down and dirty, quick to climax, and it’s over kind of thing. No, no, no! Playtime should be enjoyed! Getting yourself in the mood, lighting candles, playing your favorite music, having a glass of wine, and touching your body in the areas that give you pleasure. There’s no rush, this is your playtime.
If you’re going to teach a lover how to please you, you need to decide if this experience needs to be reciprocal. If you put on a show for him, is he going to be willing to put on a show of his own. If not, how does that affect your desire to perform? If he’s only interested in watching you, that’s fine, or should be. Remember the objective here is to show and tell self pleasure that satisfies you and gets him turned on. Life is good!
Set the ground rules. Maybe you would rather not have your partner talk, unless you ask him to, or that he leave the room after you reached orgasm (unless you ask him to stay). If you prefer to be alone afterward, that should be your prerogative – it’s your show! Ask for whatever will make you feel comfortable beforehand, and make sure both you and your partner are okay with it.
If you feel you need time alone to prepare and get started, ask your partner to wait until you tell him to come in the room. Go into your room, sip your wine, enjoy the music and candlelight. Get comfortable! But don’t get carried away with this. A male’s attention span can be incredibly short.
You might want to crack the door, just enough so your partner can catch a glimpse of you. Let him hear the changes in your breathing, and the sounds of pleasure as you begin to excite your body. Touch your body with your fingers and enjoy the feelings. Run your hands up and over your thighs, tantalize your breasts, pinch your nipples. Touch your clitoris and feel the moisture between your legs. Put a fingertip in your mouth and share the wetness with your tongue.
If you like sex toys, you might want to play with a vibrator or bullet before you begin to masturbate with your fingers. Don’t be surprised to find your partner climbing on the bed alongside you by now. You’ve shown him the places you like to be touched, and now it’s time to show him the final act. Let him watch as you stimulate your clitoris. Show him how you love using the vibrator and bullet. Let him see the moisture glisten on the lips of your vagina as you slide one of your fingers inside. erection
Get your body into a sexual frenzy by tapping gently on your clitoris. Let him see you circle and rub your clitoris. As the sensation builds and become uncontrollable, let him see you enjoy your orgasm. And, if you want to climax again, show your lover you can reach orgasm multiple times. If you and your partner are into vocalizing; be loud and let him know how good it feels.
A one-person show is not meant to tell your partner he is doing everything wrong, or that you only like to be touched certain ways. Letting your partner watch you giving yourself pleasure can and should be erotic and intimate. And, if you had a rule that your partner would perform a one-man show for you, he should have no trouble. It’s quite possible that he’ll be erect and sexually excited after watching your performance. We can only hope.
This is a show that can deepen sexual connections and heighten sexual desires and satisfaction for both of you, so if you going to do it, go all out. And don’t be afraid of appearing to be a little slutty. Many men like their partners to be a lady in the living room, and a little on the trashy side in the bedroom. Enjoy!
